Metres Mambo Ezili Freda Dahomey... Thee One and Only

I want to share my experience with meeting Metres Mambo Ezili Freda Dahomey, the one.... Thee ONLY.

OMG, I love this woman! And I say that with all due respect. Because she is more than just a woman. But she came to me as a woman. And I will explain.

She came to me in my dream recently when I lit a candle and offered water and went into prayer to find out who is my guardian. She and a couple other Goddess made there appearance known through clues, so I wanted to be sure.

So when I saw her she wasn’t a white woman. Freda ain’t no white woman at all. She came to me with peanut butter color skin and caramel colored hair. Maybe like sandy brown. And she’s naturally pretty. Her hair is not a mulatto woman’s hair texture.

She almost reminded me of a school teacher for whatever reason. And she was in a rose colored tank top. Like a mature woman tank top. Lol. Wide shoulder straps with a ribbed design. I saw her in detail. I zeroed in on her. It looked like she needed her hair straighten again. Lol. It look straight but her roots were natural 😂😂😂

And I asked her if we were going to the nail salon. The vibe we had was like she was my teacher but we were very close. Like I was her favorite student. No lie. I was at her home and she was sitting outside by the garage with the garage door opened. Sitting at a table that looked like patio furniture. It looked like she was grading papers. She had papers strewn across the table. A leather laptop bag.... I think when i asked her about getting our nails done, she stop what she was doing to respond to me. She was looking tired, but thankful that I pulled her away from her work when I asked that question. I think she needed it. She rubbed her head in a backwards stroke and was a little extra when she responded. Like melodramatic. Like I really need to go get by nails done or something like She almost reminded me of a school teacher for whatever reason. And she was in a rose colored tank top. Like a mature woman tank top. Lol. Wide shoulder straps with a ribbed design. Girl I saw her in detail. I zeroed in on her. It looked like she needed her hair straighten again. Lol. It look straight but her roots were natural 😂😂😂

And I asked her if we were going to the nail salon. The vibe we had was like she was my teacher but we were very close. Like I was her favorite student. No fucking lie. I was at her home and she was sitting outside by the garage with the garage door opened. Sitting at a table that looked like patio furniture. She had papers screwed across the table. A leather laptop bag.... I think when i asked her about getting our nails done, she stop what she was doing to respond to me. She was looking tired, but thankful that I pulled her away from her work when I asked that question. I think she needed it. She rubbed her head in a backwards stroke and was a little extra when she responded. Like melodramatic. Like “I really need to go get by nails done....” or something like that. And I was so excited. She felt like really motherly although she wasn’t my real mother. Like an older role model. Like it’s so specific. And that was it ❤️ that. And I was so excited. She felt like really motherly feeling although she wasn’t my real mother. Like an older role model. Like it’s so specific. And that was it ❤️

Since I’ve discovered her presence in my life and have no doubts at all.... Freda has been good to me. And I love her. She understands that I don’t want much of her time. She says she’ll be there when I need her and I feel we need to spend some time at the nail salon. She likes her nails done. She girly for real. And she need her hair dome too. Freda has been busy in my life according to the dream. Lmbo. She kinda neglecting herself and I see that in me. But money ain’t a thing to her. I see she likes nice things. But not over the top. She’ll wear some yoga pants. But they gotta be really good yoga pants, like for older women. Classy.

When Freda initially, earlier this year, in March 2019 , I had a bad experience with her. Lol. She told me to start cleaning the room I was in. Where the wall and ceiling meets, there were remnants of party streamer and tap hanging. I felt her intuitive guidance telling me to clean it up. Which I agreed to do. But as the task continued my arms were hurting because I was prying staples out the way (don’t ask me why, I didn’t do it) and I started complaining. I said that it was stupid and how tired I was. It wasn’t even my fault the walls that way. Pretty much just talking junk. And she warned me to stop. Which I did. But when I got to a part that’s was a bit more challenging, I started to complain again. And mind you, I was standing on a chair. And when I had a complaining thought, somehow the chair tipped over, and I fell on top of the chair. Y’all I can’t make this up. I promise you.

So I always felt that Freda didn’t mess with me. Lol. I use to say, Freda don’t like me. Lol.

Speaking of, those who know about Freda, they say she is jealous of and don’t like other women. What I think it is, she knows woman can be petty and competitive and don’t have time for it because she so business which is why she dips in and out like she does.

But now I understand the whole chair incident. As she explained it with the recent discoverIng of her being my head. When Freda was first being introduced. She had to let me know, don’t think you can talk to me any kinda way. I’ll fuck you up. Excuse my language. But I’m relying it exactly how she said it. She wants her respect. Just because she’s pretty, don’t think she ain’t bout that like and she’ll make examples too. Just like when you meet an high school teacher. At first, they come off stern. But as you continue to be a student and they see you are a good student, they’ll be more lenient and y’all really start to get to know each other because they see you have potential and take you under their wing.

I see she’ll do anything for you, but don’t get it twisted. She not nice. She said “I’m kind and generous and will love you to life but just do as your shown and we’ll be the ‘best of buddies’ I’ll and take care of you with you asking me too.”

She says she around for my self esteem too. She exemplifies women empowerment too. She shows women to be strong black powerful woman. Truly unstoppable.... top notch, virtuous woman.

The Lwa are real. I don’t know why they show up modernized. Like they back and better than ever and evolved. I don’t feel she likes the same stuff. I feel her taste has evolved with time.

Also, I feel she is love. Like true love. Because not only will she love on you, she’ll fuck you up when you’re wrong so you don’t learn bad habits. She expects perfection.

Also Freda explained to me as well when I went into meditation with her that she feeds off of pain. Lol. In this meditation session with her she told me to give her my pain. Because she takes on the pains of the world. I was like no. That’s a lot for you to bear already. And she said to just give it her, She knew what to do with it. At that moment I got sad and started crying because she’s already was taking on a lot and she wanted to take on my pain. But I gave her my pain. Then she was like “I feed of your pain.” 😐Lmbo. And she makes stuff happen. She Has the power to transmute our pain in to pleasure which then we can be blessed With something better. Our hearts desires. Happiness.

She also explained to me why they say she is white. The reason why they say Freda is a white woman is because she pure. And the blonde is gold, her halo. the Virgin Mary. That’s why they say also she indulges in her sexual desires, but still is a Virgin. I mean Freda is a whole GROWN woman out here. But very classy.

This is my personal experience with Metres Mambo Ezili Freda Dahomey... Thee One, Thee Only.

I know how untraditional this sounds. But this is my relationship with her. And her relationship will be different with everyone. But she has all of my respect and awe. I didn’t even know how GREAT she was. Like I’ve been tripping all these months thinking she don’t mess with me and not getting to know her. Omg! This is coming from the bottom of my heart.

So in honor to Freda, on this Thursday, November 28th, 2019... Thanksgiving Day. This is my homage to you, Freda.

I am very thankful that Freda is now in my life and that she chose me because she saw my potential. And I’m forever indebted. I surrender to her teaching and guidance, simply because she is the SHIT.

Long live Freda!

AYIBOBO and ASÉ 🤙🏾

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